Monique Van Tulder

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Dear Blokes #1

Dear Blokes

DEAR BLOKES

“I really appreciate your approach to dealing with things that leave me reaching for emotion before practicality. It would mean a lot if you could keep an eye on ______________ and maybe offer an ear. I’ve noticed they might be struggling with ______________________________________________________.

Why it matters: many of us are carrying the emotional load while balancing parents, partners, and kidults. Sometimes a calm, practical perspective is exactly what’s needed – and this small shift in communication creates space for everyone to step up.”

Love us xx

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Journal Prompts and Book Club Questions

The shape of your Grown Up’s Gap Year will be unique – let conversations and/or your pen flow, allowing the surprises to unfold. Use these prompts as springboards for inspiration, adventure, and joyful seeking.