Monique Van Tulder

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Find Your Values – Core Values List

A helpful list for you to ponder as you assess what shape you want your future lifestyle to take.

Extract from bestselling author, James Clear (Atomic Habits).

First circle your top ten, then try and whittle down to five.

  • Authenticity
  • Achievement
  • Adventure
  • Authority
  • Autonomy
  • Balance
  • Beauty
  • Boldness
  • Calm
  • Compassion
  • Challenge
  • Community
  • Competency
  • Contribution
  • Creativity
  • Curiosity
  • Determination
  • Fairness
  • Faith
  • Fame
  • Friendships
  • Fun
  • Growth
  • Happiness
  • Honesty
  • Humor
  • Influence
  • Inner Harmony
  • Justice
  • Kindness
  • Knowledge
  • Leadership
  • Learning
  • Love
  • Loyalty
  • Meaningful Work
  • Optimism
  • Peace
  • Pleasure
  • Poise
  • Popularity
  • Recognition
  • Religion
  • Reputation
  • Respect
  • Responsibility
  • Security
  • Self-Respect
  • Service
  • Spirituality
  • Stability
  • Success
  • Status
  • Wealth
  • Wisdom

LISTENING TO WISDOM

Chatting to my fit and engaged 83-year-old Papa, I asked for his wellbeing mantra – I received the following note:

Dear Eldest Daughter,

Not everything in my life has gone according to plan, but what I do know is a guardrail of sorts helps me feel consistently joyful – even when the road gets bumpy.

Key factors contributing to a joyful demeanour:

Living with a trusted life partner and experiencing love

  • Regular communication with family
  • A small circle of true friends
  • Active outdoors lifestyle, daily yoga, and meditation practice
  • Healthy eating habits
  • Understanding that nothing is more certain than change
  • Lifelong learning, awareness of current and global affairs
  • Love of reading
  • Social and community contacts, projects, and supporting
    selected charities
  • Passion for ethical, moral, and sustainable values
  • Love of nature and the planet
  • Practising a creative hobby, writing, gardening

& have some FUN. EVERYDAY.

Isn’t this beautiful? Perfect, actually.

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